69: or Sixty-nine is a sex position designed for mutual, simultaneous oral sex. Two people align themselves so that each person’s mouth is near the other’s genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex. The participants are thus mutually inverted like the numbers 6 and 9, hence the name. See also RO and OWO.
A-levels: Anal sex.
ATM: Ass to Mouth. A sex act popular in porn films that involves a man placing his cock in a woman’s anus then mouth. Also known as A2M.
Bareback: Penetrative sex without the protection of a condom. Often abbreviated to BB.
BBC: Acronym for Big Black Cock.
BBBJ: Bareback Blow Job – uncovered oral sex, not to be confused with Bareback sex, more a US term. See also OWO
BBW: Big Beautiful Woman. This is the term used by plus sized escorts, it is a euphemism for fat. A plumper escort for those that like the larger ladies. A BBW could be anything from size 14 up.
BBBW: Big Black Beautiful Woman. Large ladies that are of black ethnicity.
BDSM: Bondage, Discipline (or Dominance), Sadism, Masochism.
BFE: Boyfriend Experience. Sometimes used by male escorts. See also GFE.
BJ: Blow Job – Oral sex performed on a man’s penis.
Bukkake: An act that involves multiple men giving facials to a single woman, usually at a specialist Bukkake party.
Cam: Webcam sex, also know as Camming and those offering it are Cammers
CBT: Cock and Ball Torture – a slave places his penis and balls into a harness which restricts movement.
CD: Cross Dressing \ Cross Dresser – A man (or a woman) that wear clothes of the opposite gender.
CFNM: Clothed Female Naked Male.
CIM: Cum In Mouth – As the term implies, this consists of ejaculating in a woman’s mouth.
COB: Cum on Breasts – Ejaculating on a woman’s chest, often offered when an escort doesn’t want to spoil her make up with a Facial and so offers you her tits instead. COB can also refer to Cum on Body.
COF: Cum on Face – Another term for a Facial.
COT: Cum on Tits – Ejaculating onto a woman’s breasts.
Courtesan: Title used by ‘High Class’ escorts to justify their higher prices and more limited range of services.
CP: Creampie. The risky practice of bareback sex and subsequent ejaculation into the vagina (or anus). Popular in porn, but it is rare for escorts to do this.
DATY: Dining at the Y – This term appears on some WGs websites. It means performing cunnilingus on a woman.
Deep Throat: When a man’s entire erect penis is inserted deep into their a woman’s mouth and into the throat.
DFK: Deep French Kissing – Passionate kissing with tongue deep in the other person’s mouth.
DP: Double Penetration – when a woman has two penises inserted, one in her anus and one in her vagina.
DSL: Dick Sucking Lips – Large, plump lips.
DT: Abbreviated term for Deep Throat.
Duo: A booking with two escorts, usually with lesbian interaction between them.
EB: Extraball. Cum more than once in a booking. Rarely used.
EE: East European, most commonly an escort from the newer EC countries of Poland, Czech Republic, Hungary, Bulgaria, Slovakia or Romania, but can refer to any of the former Soviet Bloc countries, such as Russia, Ukraine or the Baltic States.
Extras: A prostitute may charge add-on services at an extra cost in addition to her normal fee. Common extras include: OWO, A-levels and Watersports.
Face Fuck: Thrusting the cock in and out of a woman’s mouth, often performed whiled holding the head.
Facesitting: Having a woman sit in your face, with or without her knickers on. Also known as Queening
Facial: Ejaculating on a woman’s face. Not always offered by escorts especially on shorter bookings as they have to re-do their make up before the next booking.
FBSM: Full Body Sensual Massage. The person giving the massage uses their whole body rather than just their hands.
Femdom: Female dominance or female domination. Used in relation to BDSM activities, implying the female is dominant in that scenario. Often abbreviated to FD.
FF: Fist Fuck or Fist Fucking. Inserting a fist into the vagina (or anus).
FFM: Female, Female, Male – A threesome involving 2 females and 1 male.
FJ: Foot Job. Being wanked off with a foot or feet.
FK: French Kissing using tongues but not as deep or vigorous as DFK
GB: Gang Bang. Basically, group sex.
GFE: Girlfriend Experience – an escort experience like being with a real girlfriend. There is no agreed list of services included, but you expect kissing or DFK, oral sex and full sex. It does not include the more adventurous services you would expect from a PSE or fetish services.
Happy Ending: Another term for a Hand Job, usually in connection with a massage and for an extra charge. Sometimes abbreviated to HE.
HJ: Hand Job
HR: Hand Relief – Another term for a Hand Job or a wank. HR is a term mainly used by massage parlours and masseuses to distance themselves from full sex escorting services.
HS: Hardsports. Also known as scat. An sex act that involves shit (usually being shat on or eating shit). See also Watersports.
Incall: Where you visit the escort in her flat or sometimes a hotel, which she will have booked and paid for. Usually cheaper than Outcall appointments as escorts do not have travel time and can therefore see more clients in a working day. They can also be more discreet as some agencies or escorts require additional security checks for outcall bookings.
Ladyboy: Another term for a shemale or Transgendered male.
LD: Lap Dance. A striptease where the female stripper rubs her genitals and breasts on a clothed sitting male. If performed in a strip club they usually have a “no touch” policy.
MF: Male Female – refers to a duo, involving a couple (male and female) and another prostitute.
MMF: Male, Male, Female – Refers to a threesome with two males and 1 female. The female is usually a prostitute.
NSA: No Strings Attached – A dating term meaning casual sex could be on offer.
O-Levels: Oral sex, a blow job.
Outcall: Booking where you ask an escort to visit your home or hotel room. Usually costs more than an incall to allow for travel time – some escorts or agencies also charge travelling expenses. Sometimes they ask for your real name as a security check to check you actually live there or with the hotel reception that you are a guest. For security reasons this makes them less popular unless you have confidence in the discretion of the agency or escort.
OW: Oral With – a blowjob with a condom on.
OWO: Oral Without – a blowjob without a condom on.
Quickie: A 15 minute booking with an escort. Some allow oral only (no sex) in this time.
Rimming: The act of using one’s tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure.
RO: Reverse Oral, cunninlingus, oral sex performed on a woman.
ROM: An abbreviated term for Romanian.
RP: Roleplay\Roleplaying. Dressing up and acting out a scenario for sexual gratification.
Shemale: See T-Girl
Snowballing: Swapping cum after oral sex from mouth to mouth, the cum mixes with saliva and increases in volume creating a “snowball effect”. There are a number of scenarios when snowballing occurs. Swapping a punter’s cum between two escorts as part of a duo or alternatively when a punter ejaculates into the escort’s mouth and then she passes his cum back into his mouth through kissing.
Squirter: A slang term for a woman that ejaculates vaginal fluid during orgasm.
Sub: Submissive. The passive partner in a BDSM scenario. See also: bottom.
Sybian: is a sex device in the form of a saddle with a remote controlled vibrator on top.
Teabagging: A man dunks his bollocks in and out of his partner’s mouth while squatting over him\her.
Top: In BDSM the dominant partner, such as a Dominatrix or master. In the gay and TG community a person that gives anal sex.
Tour: In a context a escort may spend a few days in another city (to where she is usually based) offering incalls, often from a hotel.
TV: Transvestite – A man who dresses in woman’s clothes, often for sexual enjoyment.
Watersports: The act of urinating on someone or being urinated on. Watersports can also involve urine drinking. Often abbreviated to WS